[Blog #1] My Ultimate Dream


Since I was a kid I want to be a teacher someday. Both of my parents are a teacher that is why I want to follow their footsteps. It’s been my ultimate dream; I can already imagine what I am going to do when I finish college. But different thing happened after I graduated in high school last 2007.

I know to myself what I really wanted from the start. But instead of supporting what I really wanted, my parents insisted that I should take up the Nursing course. During that time it was the in-demand course in the Philippines. The highest paying job and everyone I know is taking it up. I tried to fight for what I really wanted but I was defeated. I took up Nursing because “that is what they said”. Even though I hate what I am studying I don’t have any other choice. My first year wasn’t that fine as I have failed 2 subjects. Disappointed with the result, I still continue the next year. I tried to study harder, though I do not like the track I am heading to, for the benefit of my parents I still did it. But as the semesters past my track became shaded and seems like impossible for me to continue. When my second year ended, I know that I can’t do it anymore; I talked to my parents during the summer. I asked them to let me stop because I really can’t continue what I really hated from the start. After one sincere talked, they understand what I am going through and told me change course. As quickly as possible I searched for schools I can enroll in to for the next school year.


Though that summer I already had the chance to take what I have been dreaming of, I took another path. Instead of getting teaching as my program, I took Information Technology (IT). I told myself “Since I’m fond of the computer and dealing with the new technology, why not?” So I took up IT without hesitation and I am having fun taking it. I learned new information and got to know more about computers. As I am having fun taking it up, opportunity came to me at the wrong time. My US visa got approved and I don’t have any choice but to stop again. I need to pack my things and get ready to leave the Philippines.

I am now living in LA and but I still have the determination to finish my schooling so I asked my parents to let me go to school again. Since I got the permission, I searched for schools and get the requirements I needed. At the current present time, I am already taking up subjects and trying to start the path that is really meant for me from the very start. I wasn’t able to give the chance to choose before, but this time I’m getting what I really wanted when I am still a kid, to become a good educator someday.


5 comments:

  1. Mary Duffield said...:

    Malen~ Thanks for sharing!

  1. Sukira said...:

    you're welcome professor... ^__^

  1. Yesenia said...:

    Malen, i understand how you feel something similar happend to me my parents keped pressuring me so much i studied to b a medical assistant, i didnt like it. I wasted almost two years, but im finally getting back on track and hopefully i will accomplish my dream. :)

  1. rosa pinedo said...:

    i think a lot of us can relate to the pressure our parents put on us to do something they want. Its good that you decided to tell them how u felt(: The good thing is your doing what you like now and your trying stay on track.

  1. Most important is to be happy, at list feel that way.Each person finds it in some way. Right now you're doing what YOU like to do... sort of happiness.

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